The Pressure You Add: What It Actually Costs || Episode 16

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Some of the pressure you operate under is not coming from your job. It is coming from you. And it may not be doing anything.

This episode is not about underperformance. The results are there. The projects move. People bring you the difficult thing because you are the one who handles it. What is worth questioning is the price.

Ryan opens with a leader who spent three days in a certification training. Company paid. Calendar blocked. Nothing to produce. No deck, no deliverable, no one waiting on an output. Something strange happened in that room. Less tension. Speaking up in group discussion without checking how it sounded first. Finished the knowledge checks first, both days. Same performance. Same result. None of the usual costs.

They came back with a question they could not put down. If the results were identical, what had all that pressure been doing?

In this episode:

  • The two sources of pressure in your work, and which one you installed yourself
  • Why the generator keeps running in the backyard of a house that is already on the grid
  • Where the standard came from once nobody was assigning it anymore
  • Three costs that never show up in your results: your read on your own capability, your margin, and your presence
  • Why this is a subtraction problem, not a discipline problem
  • A low-stakes experiment to run this week, and the one question it answers

Chapters
00:07 The training room
01:19 You are not underperforming
03:00 Two kinds of pressure
05:19 Where the generator was installed
07:24 Revving the engine at a red light
09:54 This is a subtraction problem
10:57 The experiment
13:29 Momentum without force

Three questions to sit with this week:

  1. Where is the external pressure already more than enough?
  2. What would you have to believe about yourself to stop adding to it?
  3. If the results held anyway, what would that mean about the last ten years?

Start here: The Leader's Internal Friction Assessment. A short set of questions that shows you where the effort in your leadership is going, and whether it is going anywhere useful.
ryanwattscoaching.com/friction

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